Pre-identification, I remember coming to a point where I'd lost belief that anyone could know what was best for me. The big picture seemed to get more unmanageable no matter whose suggestions I followed. No wonder -- no one knew I was autistic, so the input I was getting wasn't suited to my real needs.

Post-identification, I know more about my needs. I'm learning that other people know about them, too. From experts like Devon Price and Sarah Hendrickx, to the members of AWG, to other neurofolk in my community, I'm getting input that actually rings true and helps make things better. All of a sudden, input is evidence of what I have in common with others. It's made me feel more connected. Wondering if anyone here can relate, or maybe has a different take on the "input from others" idea.

Share questions:

• How do you feel about getting advice, suggestions, or other input from people?
• Have your feelings changed since becoming identified?
  
• Do your traits have anything to do with the way you seek out, don't seek out, or interpret advice? Demand avoidance, perfectionism, social processing, other?
• Are you open to others' suggestions at some times more than others?
  
• Are there things you have to do before you look for others' input, or are you likely to look for advice right away? 
• Are there any resources, tools, or strategies that have helped you with this topic? 
• Anything else to add?